EX On The Beach's Lotan Cater failed to find love on the show - but he's now dating a mum-of-two he met offscreen. AWKS! A number of Calum Best’s ex-girlfriends showed up on Celebrity Ex on the Beach – from Victoria Winterford to Marissa Jade. How does Victoria really feel with ex Lotan joining the villa? Girl's gotta make a decision... Michael? Lotan? Calum and Victoria briefly dated on Celebs Go Dating ‘s 2017 series, while Calum dated Marissa in 2017 as well. Trivia Lotan is the nephew of Celebrity Big Brother 12 housemate Louie Spence . Tough times! He arrived in episode 8 as an ex of Celebs Go Dating Star Victoria Winterford, who is also exes with Calum.